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Sexuality131 episodesSwapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released bi-monthly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
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1 Year of Swapping Secrets: Our Best, Wildest & Funniest Moments (PART 1)
45 min 40 sec
<p>Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light.</p>
<p>Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests and community members who’ve joined them over the past year.</p>
<p>We’re talking open relationships, swinging, consent, communication, first-time nerves, bisexuality, sexual health, stage fright, relationship agreements, awkward confessions, questionable Google searches and plenty of things that probably sounded like a better idea before somebody turned the microphones on.</p>
<p>There’s been a lot of sex, obviously. But there’s also been a year of learning how people communicate, explore relationships, navigate boundaries, laugh at themselves and find their place in this wonderfully weird community.</p>
<p>Thanks for coming along for the ride.</p>
<p>And if you’re new here? This is one hell of a place to start.</p>
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Behind the Fantasy of OnlyFans with Kim Cums
49 min 22 sec
<p>In this episode of <strong>Swapping Secrets</strong>, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator <strong>Kim Cums</strong> to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like.</p>
<p>Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and environmental science, an online relationship, kink exploration and early webcam modelling gradually led her into escorting, adult content creation and eventually building her own platform, <strong>KimCums.com</strong>.</p>
<p>But what audiences see online is only a small part of the job.</p>
<p>It’s a conversation about <strong>OnlyFans, adult entertainment, sex work, stigma, relationships, censorship, identity and what really happens behind the camera</strong>.</p>
<p>Check Kim out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kimcums.official/" rel="nofollow">here!</a></p>
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Reddit’s Wildest Bisexual Dilemmas (with By the Bi)
1 hr 15 min
<p>Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY.</p>
<p>With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas.</p>
<p>From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards surrounding bi relationships, to discovering same-sex attraction later in life, the trio unpack where personal preference ends and biphobia begins — and why bisexuality still gets tangled up with assumptions about cheating, masculinity, monogamy and commitment.</p>
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Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng
1 hr 7 min
<p>What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body?</p>
<p>In this episode of <strong>Swapping Secrets</strong>, Jess and Lawrence are joined by <strong>Miranda Cheng</strong>, founder of <strong>We The Femme</strong> and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality.</p>
<p>Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, stress and breath can influence desire, arousal and pleasure. Although many people focus on what they should <em>do</em> during sex, Miranda explains why noticing what is already happening in the body can be just as important.</p>
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Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time
1 hr 13 min
<p>In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance.</p>
<p>They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the entire storyline, and how children’s television can normalise different relationships without turning them into a lesson.</p>
<p>The conversation also examines masculine stereotypes, gender expression, family attitudes and the impact of seeing people live outside traditional expectations on screen.</p>
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